1.I got this message once from a female relative of mine:

A woman has strengths that amaze men. She can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens. She holds happiness, love and opinions. She smiles when she feels like screaming . She sings when she feels like crying, cries when she's happy and laughs when she's afraid . Her love is unconditional! there's only one thing wrong with her, she sometimes forgets what she's worth. pass this on to every beautiful woman you know.

So is there any thing away from deception she is? Is self dishonesty becomes her praise? why such contradiction is so admired in this forward message, i can't think of that description determining the feminine beauty!

2. I think that there shouldn't be a standard law that sets a standard punishment for a generalized deed. it all depends on the situation in my point of you. I believe there is never a situation similar to the other, I know there is a long investigation to determine an innocent person from a criminal but the punishment should always be malleable to the crime. it would be more interesting for the judges to think of more judgments!